Happy Mothers Day!

First Off, Happy Mothers Day to all the moms out there!

I have  been teetering on this post for a couple days, What to say, How to say it. First let me begin by saying  people need to STOP judging people by their looks. Its wrong, and As a woman I am guilty, Society has trained us this way and it is pathetic. Every person is amazing and beautiful in there own way. EVERYONE. Yes you, You are fucking gorgeous, Don't worry what ANYONE else thinks or says. Recently I have come to face someone who doesn't know me, that has judged me. Why does it bother me so much? I still have yet to figure that out. I guess I am too much of a "girly girl" for their liking, which is okay, but it still drove me crazy to think someone wouldn't like me because I take pride in the way I present myself, I mean shit it's obvious I am fat, the least I can do is make my fat ass look nice. Hiding behind make up and nice clothes gives me a bit more confidence. Is that so bad? And once again, society has made us think if we are not 5'10 and a size 0 then we are not good enough, when in reality is society that is not good enough.

 Some of my weight watchers sisters have lost a lot of weight and still feel bad about themselves from time to time, which happens to all of us but, Really ladies? ONCE AGAIN, you are fucking amazing. Inside and out. Every woman needs to hear this AND believe it. Tying this post into weight loss is easy, many times the over weight is easy, when a person looses weight, they will still see themselves as bigger, this would be called a mind fuck. I am the same way, Every day is still seems that I have not lost any weight and that I've seen no progress, but the scales and measuring tapes show different. And some days, I feel smaller. Our brains are a crazy thing. 

On an end note I want to say, next time you go to judge someone, stop, take a breath, and a step back, think about what you're doing, and how it can impact others, treat everyone the way you want to be treated. Hurt people, Hurt people. -Mama Laughlin. Don't compare yourself to others, you are not them. You are you, the amazing badass that you are, love it, embrace it and appreciate it. If everyone did this, the world would be a much much better place.